Reflections
These posts don’t come from a textbook. They come from real life — and usually from the places you’d least expect to find a therapy lesson.
You’re welcome to browse, linger, or move on — whatever feels right. Some posts may resonate more than others. There’s no need to read them in order or take anything as instruction. Consider this space an invitation to reflect, if and when it feels useful.
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Stories & Reflections
Short, story-driven posts connecting everyday moments to what happens in the therapy room.
Fuel
A few years back I was driving a Budget moving truck cross-country from CA to NY. I looked down at
A Goldfish Named Aristotle
About 20 years before I ever considered becoming a therapist, I was intrigued by philosophy. I never studied it —
Record Player
There’s a song I keep coming back to—”Record Player” by AJR & Daisy the Great. It’s not the melody or
Japanese Dining
My first duty station in the Marine Corps, after all the initial training, was in Okinawa, Japan. I remember one
Deep Dives
Longer reads exploring clinical ideas and what actually drives change — written for anyone curious enough to go there.
Can Couples Therapy Help If Only One Partner Wants It?
“You’re both wrong.” This is how I usually start my couples work after hearing from both partners. It’s a pretty
Depression Doesn’t Want You to Get Better: Why It Fights Treatment
We ask clients: “On a scale of 1-10, how depressed are you?” We say things like “You have depression” or
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